Renowned Nollywood actress and media personality, Dorcas Shola Fapson, popularly known as Ms DSF, has shed light on the pervasive issue of insecurity among Nigerian men regarding their masculinity.
In a candid conversation on the Bahd and Boujee Podcast, alongside co-hosts reality star Tolanibaj and actress Moet Abebe, Ms DSF shared her insights into the challenges faced by successful women in navigating romantic relationships with men who struggle with feelings of inadequacy.
Ms DSF revealed that she has encountered numerous instances where men have exhibited signs of intimidation in the face of her achievements and success. She emphasized the importance of finding a partner who is secure in himself and capable of supporting and celebrating the accomplishments of a successful woman.
Acknowledging the complexities inherent in such dynamics, Ms DSF articulated the necessity for men to bring their own strengths and contributions to the table in relationships with successful women. She stressed the need for mutual respect and reciprocity, where both partners are willing to elevate each other and grow together.
Highlighting the challenges faced by men in confronting societal expectations and traditional notions of masculinity, Ms DSF underscored the importance of self-assurance and confidence in navigating relationships with successful women without feeling threatened or diminished.